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Anonymous asked: what would you do if two of your close guy friends both like you, but you don't like any of them.. you rather stay as friends, but if you tell them they will start avoiding you and shit. But you dont want to lead them on... what to do?
It’s good that you made the right choice not to fall for them. If they avoid you, doesn’t matter. You still must make the effort to talk to them and stay as close to them as possible as you could, don’t let them think that you just want them to fall for you, prove to them that you want to be good friends. Tell them that you just want to be close friends and nothing more.
Anonymous asked: I need your help! So I'm beginning to have feelings for this guy. (let's say his name is bob) We've never talked but I've hung around him and his friends once, and that's when I started liking him. When we were all together his friends were playing dares, one of his friends asked me "Would you hook up with...." and then they were all giggling. I knew he was gonna say bob because he was kind of pointing to him PLUS bob was laughing and saying "noo" as-in an "no don't ask it" I think he was just shy that's why. anyway I didn't say anything but I wish I said yes I would so then he would know ): anyway since that day I've developed feelings for him, I developed feelings easily and even though we haven't talked I like him so much. I don't want to talk to him on facebook or anything or in real life because it's so awkward. I've told my friends about him but that's all. should I wait and see what happens? I have no idea what to do, I've never told my crush that I like them now I'm not sure what to do :/
You don’t want to talk to him because you’re scared, right?
Never tell your crush that you like them, because you don’t know how they feel (Possibility = Big risk). Let them come up to you first and tell you, and if they don’t - They’re either shy or don’t like you. So you must trust one of his friends. Ask one of his friends to help you out, ask one of his friends to ask Bob if he likes you, just so you know the 100% answer. If you want to be with him, you could get the friend of his you trust to hook you guys up. Don’t stand there and wait, because you might regret it. Quickly ask his friend to help you out. :)
Anonymous asked: hey babe, so i dont know what to do. me and this guy are basically MORE THAN FRIENDS BUT LESS THAN LOVERS, but recently he saw pictures of his ex' formal pics with another guy.. he told me he felt sad and shit about it :$ so i was like mm ohkays. i asked if he has feelings for her still but his like i dun no. -.-" i think his still jealous of her but i dunno what to do now.. he says he misses me and shit and wants to see me BUT STILL GET SAD OVER HIS EX' WTH AM I SUPPOSE TO DO.. i told him to sort himself out. shuld i get over him ? or wait till his sure of who he loves... ): cos i dun wonna get hurt.. and im IN YEAR 12
It sounds like you’re in an “opening relationship” aka. ‘seeing’. Everyone feels sad when they see their ex with someone else. Let’s just say you saw your ex boyfriend with someone else, so you think to yourself ‘oh I think I miss him, I could’ve done better but now that I’m with this guy I think that I should get over my ex’. That’s how your partner feels, put yourself in his shoes then you should be able to feel his pain. No matter how sad he is I know for sure that he still loves you. A bit of his ex’s attention has been caught onto his feelings but that soon will be let go. You should wait to see who the bottle spins to.
Anonymous asked: hey babe, so i dont know what to do. me and this guy are basically MORE THAN FRIENDS BUT LESS THAN LOVERS, but recently he saw pictures of his ex' formal pics with another guy.. he told me he felt sad and shit about it :$ so i was like mm ohkays. i asked if he has feelings for her still but his like i dun no. -.-" i think his still jealous of her but i dunno what to do now.. he says he misses me and shit and wants to see me BUT STILL GET SAD OVER HIS EX' WTH AM I SUPPOSE TO DO.. i told him to sort himself out. shuld i get over him ? or wait till his sure of who he loves... ): cos i dun wonna get hurt.. and im IN YEAR 12
It sounds like you’re in an “opening relationship” aka. ‘seeing’. Everyone feels sad when they see their ex with someone else. Let’s just say you saw your ex boyfriend with someone else, so you think to yourself ‘oh I think I miss him, I could’ve done better but now that I’m with this guy I think that I should get over my ex’.
That’s how your partner feels, put yourself in his shoes then you should be able to feel his pain. No matter how sad he is I know for sure that he still loves you. A bit of his ex’s attention has been caught onto his feelings but that soon will be let go.
You should wait to see who the bottle spins to.
Anonymous asked: hey Teresa!
so theres this guy i like and he goes to my school, i have one subject with him and another subject thats joined LOL so... i guess two subjects, anyways. He always flirts with me like always asking for hugs and we always muck around and play fight and everything, he texts me when he needs something but when i text him he never replies or he takes his sweet ass time to reply, i know i like him and my friend recently told him for me because my friend and i thought that it was best that way, im scared that, that boy and i might not have the same friendship as we used to, and i kno his not ready for a relationship, what should i do ?
Whenever he’s ready for a relationship, he’ll give you the response that you want to hear. If he’s not then I guess there’s no luck but there could be a chance though.
I don’t know about him but it sounds like to me that he’s just trying to play you over. (make you fall for him, but in the end he doesn’t mean any of those things he does or say). You should get your bestfriend to ask him if he likes you just to make sure, or get some information off his friends, if you ever talk to them and if you think they’re trustworthy enough to talk to.
Anonymous asked: this guy used to like me.. but i rejected him cause he was more of a close friend to begin with and i didn't want to break that friendship. He gave up on me and now he likes some other chick, he has changed so much and i'm liking the new him.. which is causing me to fall for him. We were playing a game and i asked him "what he would do if i told him i like him right now" as a joke and he said things won't change and shit cause i already broke his heart once. Me and him has been talking alot now a days, i know its wrong to like him and shit but i just can't help it! He's always in front of my face and he is the nicest guy ever but i know that he likes the other chick.... so i don't know what to do?
Whenever you feel ready, let him know that you regret not loving him in the first place and tell him how you really feel. If he wants to stay as friends, let it be. He’ll get over the other girl sooner or later. If you could wait, wait until he decides to beg you back.
Anonymous asked: hey teresa, how can you tell if a guy is over you and wants a break up ? what should i do to prevent it from happening ? =/
You could tell when someone doesn’t want to be with you anymore by knowing their actions towards you have been acted out differently. In other words: They’re not acting like their true-selves.
You can’t do anything, just ignore it then he’ll start to realise that you’re not giving any care in whatever relationship you’re in. He’ll then start to realise that he’s got a mission to do, which is to gain his feelings back and to make you love him.
Anonymous asked: hey Teresa!
i like this guy right now and ive known him since year seven, to be honest i rekon his my first love, even though we've never dated or anything, i just told him that i liked him but his being to difficult about it and slow replying me because his gaming, its like he doesnt care if i like him or not.
but yeah i think he likes one of my closes friends because his always on the phone with her everyday :/ i wanna ask him to my deb that i have next year but im scared of what he'll say, im scared he might reject me or im scared he'll say yes because he feels sorry for me and actually doesnt wanna go with me,
what should i do? D:
Don’t worry, you feel that this may be your first love and you may have that feeling where he’ll reject you because you don’t know who he really loves.
You think that he might say yes because he feels sorry for you, but if he said yes, then what happens to the other girl? and if he says no, then you’ll know how exactly he feels. Him and your close friend could’ve been good friends or bestfriends.
